Welcome Guest Blogger Julie Miller!

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A few years back (I won’t say how long…Blaze babes are always young and gorgeous at heart ;)) I was invited back to my alma mater to give the commencement speech to the graduating class at my high-school. It’s a tradition of theirs to invite a 20-year alum to come back and inspire (I hope) the current crop of seniors. It was truly an honor for me to speak before an auditorium packed with graduates, parents, faculty, city officials and former teachers. I thought long and hard about what I wanted to say. As a writer, I figured the words would come to me. But I wanted the message to be just right—something meaningful, something that might give those eighteen year-olds something to think about and impact their life. Ultimately, I looked at my own life to see what my philosophy was about successful living, and I came up with a 2-part challenge that I continue to live by every day. Now, a few years further along the road of life, I’m discovering that that advice applies to my writing life as well.
Here it is:
1. Learn something new every day.
2. Make a difference—every day.
Now, learning something new can mean anything from taking a class to earn another college degree to attending a writer’s conference or workshop to having my dad show me how to replace a faulty toilet to watching how the birds and rabbits and Maxie (our dog) interact in my back yard. You get the idea—in big or small ways, expand your horizons, stimulate the brain, grow yourself as a person.
Making a difference can be huge—joining a recycling program or mentoring a child, rescuing a pet from the pound—or small—smiling a thank you to the harried kid behind the counter at McDonald’s or holding the door for an elderly person. Again, it’s all about doing something for someone else. Makes you feel good inside. Makes your world or someone else feel better, too. This one’s about looking outward, paying it forward. You’re going to leave an imprint on this world—make it a good one.
So, how does this philosophy apply to writing books? I didn’t realize exactly how much it did until I got into the process of writing my current Blaze release, OUT OF CONTROL. A couple of years back, I was talking to my Blaze editor, Brenda Chin, about future books I’d like to write for the line. Before my military Blazes became a hit, I was thinking in terms of a steamy romantic suspense story—and I’d thrown out the idea of a FAST AND FURIOUS kind of Blaze story—I pictured Vin Diesel (sorry, Paul Walker!) as the undercover cop, with an ace lady mechanic at his side and in his bed, working to solve a murder in the world of street racing. That idea didn’t fly at the time—Brenda wanted more Marines
But when the “From 0-60” miniseries idea came about, she remembered that story idea and asked me if I’d like to write one of the stories for the Blaze Series Spotlight. Heck, yeah! But one key ingredient was going to be different—the focus wasn’t going to be on big city cops—I had to move my story to the world of drag racing!
Did Julie know anything about drag racing? No. Did she know how to change the oil, much less soup up the engine of her car? No. Did she know the length of the track? How fast the cars go? What to call the trailer a car is hauled in? Again, no. So… I applied philosophy #1. I learned a lot about drag racing. I starting watching Horsepower TV (I still don’t get everything they’re showing me, but it gave me some believable lingo and characters to make my story more real). My good buddies who worked on the series with me–Alison Kent, Jennifer Labrecque and Lori Borrill–generously shared their knowledge. And a new member of my local writing group, The Prairieland Romance Writers www.prwne.com who goes to the races with her hubby, had some firsthand experience, and offered to answer any questions that might come up as I wrote the book. Drag racing wasn’t anywhere in my life experience, but I made it part of my experience. I learned. And because I learned, I could then write about it. Convincingly, I hope!
The second part of my philosophy? I’m sharing my knowledge about the writing business, about the craft of writing and more with that same fledgling writer in my group. She reads my books, asks questions. I answer them. I don’t claim to know everything, but I can certainly share my experiences and what works for me. Seems like a pretty good exchange to me, a nice way to thank her for her help. Good karma all round.
The dual learning/sharing philosophy was obvious with this book for me. But I’m certain it won’t be the last time that give and take process helps me create an authentic, engaging story with believable characters that readers will fall in love with.
So, how about you? What’s something interesting or funny or cool you’ve learned recently? What are you doing to make a difference, even in a small way, in the world?
And, if you’d like the chance to win a copy of my Blaze, OUT OF CONTROL, go to my chapter website at www.prwne.com. I’m the featured member of the month there, and we’re giving away a signed copy of my book! You can read a short excerpt of the story there, too.
Happy, sexy reading!
Julie Miller
www.juliemiller.org







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Great post, Julie. I’d done a blog a while back about smiling and the world smiles back. As part of that, I’d made a commitment to learn the names of 5 people this year, be it the doorman at my office, the lady who runs the coffee stand, the woman at the deli, etc. (Okay, so they have name tags–that makes it easy lol!) but my promise was to start using their names and trying to be one of those pleasant people they do business with. It’s been nice, though I’ll admit that it’s something I keep needing to make a conscious effort to do. Unlike my husband, who’s just that way naturally, I have to force my thoughts out of the clouds (or my WIP) to remember there’s someone standing in front of me. LOL
As for learning new things, I’m an HGTV/Discovery Channel junkie so I’m picking up all kinds of things here and there (few of which I ever manage to use in a Blaze). For instance, did you know that Americans were the first ones to fire shots at Pearl Harbor on December 7th? Got that from the Science Channel the other night. Hmmm…maybe a “Perfect Timing” time travel Blaze?
Lori–That’s a great tip about learning people’s names. That’s something we talked about back in college when I was learning to be a teacher, too. How important it is to connect with every student in your classroom. Calling by name is a great classroom management tool (freaks them out if you’re a sub and you can call them by name ), but more importantly, it gives that person an identity. It shows them they’re important enough to be recognized. People need to feel important.
Oh, yeah, I love watching the History channel. And my son (19!) got me onto this show on Spike TV about who makes the Deadliest Warrior. Apache vs. Gladiator, Viking vs. Samurai, etc. It’s a bit graphic at times. :-P But totally fascinating (if you don’t mind CSI-ish gore, you might like this). Great background in weaponry, cultures and fighting style.
I love to learn stuff! Even if I never use it in a book or classroom, it just is fun and interesting to do!
Great philosophy. I’ll have to remember it.
Since I went to see Fast & Furious yesterday – and absolutely LOVED it – Out of Control sounds right up my alley! As much as I love cars, I’ve never considered writing a racing hero, and now I’m wondering why. It’s interesting to watch the trends change, as yesterday’s it thing soon becomes passe and tomorrow’s wouldn’t have been considered yesterday. I should know, my next book is about a murdered rock star – and we all know how rock stars were on the no-no list for a long time. ‘Course I haven’t sold my murdered rock star book yet, but I’m still going to write it.
Best of luck with your latest release, Julie!
I volunteer teaching art at a local grade school. I’m far from an expert, but it’s taught me about the artists and styles. The kids LOVE it. So its a learning curve both directions!
Jennifer–I think teachers are heroes! Be they volunteers, fully-certified or somewhere in between. Thank you for doing that. I’m sure the kids DO love it. I worry so much about the fine arts being cut back or eliminated from schools. And they provide such a learning opportunity that is invaluable to the thinking process. My son didn’t learn how to succeed with his dyslexia until he learned to read music. Brava to that teacher! Now he’s in college, where he’s a success in music AND he loves to read!
Cari–Good luck with the murdered rock star book! You know, Blaze is an innovative line that often does stories that go against the standard trend–and then they SET the trend! Maybe, if the tone is right, and the sexiness is there, that’d be an option?
Julie! What a great post! I can’t wait to see you at RT! Your new Blaze cover is phenomenal!
Hey, Deb! Yes! I’m looking forward to seeing you at RT. Should be a fun–busy!–time. See you soon!
And thanks on the cover. The art department actually used my suggestion, so I was flattered. Nicely built guy in a wet, skin hugging T-shirt? Can’t go wrong with that. (Y)
Hi, Julie! I’m learning to bake bread from scratch, something my mom and aunt both do with flair and I really wanted to learn how to do. So every week I make a couple of loaves, sometimes plain brown bread, sometimes oatmeal, just getting into the rhythm of kneading and waiting. It’s fun!
As for giving back…one of the best parts of making two loaves of bread each time is sharing one loaf with someone else. We’re three people in my family and at one batch of two loaves a week I’d have enough bread frozen to last through a catastrophe, so I give it away. It’s not much in the big scheme of things, as you can buy bread for almost nothing at the store and it’s good bread, too, but a few years ago my grandmother talked for quite a while about how much she loved getting plates of mixed bars and cookies at Christmas time. That made me think about how the “little things” can mean so much. So I make bread, and I share it.
As a grateful recipient of your writing advice, I know you’ve built up lots of good karma! Thanks for sharing so generously!
Hey, Anne–I bet your home smells marvelous!! Probably my favorite meal of all time is my mom’s home-baked sourdough bread and her home-made soup. I loved it when she’d let me punch down the dough after it had risen the first time. It just conjures up all kinds of wonderful feelings of family and home–makes me feel serene right now, just thinking of it. What a lovely, caring gift to pass it on.
And you’re most welcome!
Great post. I need to incorporate both of those philosophies into my daily routine. I do try to list a few things I’m grateful for each day. It’s my way of staying on track with the simple things in life. Although I will confess that after a rough day the list is very short!
BTW – I have Out of Control and it sounds great! I’m really looking forward to reading it.
Thanks, Sherry–I hope you enjoy the book!
That’s sounds like a very grounding/de-stressing idea to make a daily list of things you’re grateful for. Sounds as though it puts all the craziness of our lives and schedules into perspective. Thanks for sharing.
Wise words.
This was a wonderful post.
I’m going to steal a great deal of it for a commencement speech I have to give for one of the local high schools.
Just thought I’d let you know!
After years of dieting I finally learned that to lose weight I only have to avoid one thing. Ingredient lists! I try to share this with others who are trying to diet–not that anyone really wants to hear that. It is SO difficult to avoid all foods with ingredient lists!!
Candace–Steal away
If something I’ve said resonated with you, then I’d be honored if you’d share it with the graduating class.
Some of the graduates when I spoke told me, “That made sense.” and “I’m really going to try to do that.” Of course, one young man gave me high praise, indeed, when he said, “That wasn’t boring.” (Ah, the teenage male brain–gotta love it!)
Interesting, chey–so are you saying it’s the purer foods we should be looking for instead of the ones with lots of things added to it?
It seems to work that way for me. I only found it out by accident–needed to avoid gluten and gluten was hidden in a lot of things, under various names. So I just tried to avoid stuff with ingredient lists. And lost weight. Without even trying. I was eating 4 desserts a day just to maintain my weight!
Sweet! (H)
Hey, Heather–Thanks for stopping by. I appreciate your thoughts.
I’ll have to tell Kristin Eckhardt that I “saw” you here today. Hope all is going well.
And “hi” back to Kristin! It was fun writing the magic skirt books with her and Cara Summers! (*)
Hey Julie,
It’s late and I’m finally checking in. At this point, all it feels like I’ve learned recently is that I can’t stay up as late as I used to and still function the next day! Great post. In fact, my son graduates in 3 weeks and I don’t think they’re having a speaker. I will have to give him your pointers because they are good words to live by. Tried to pick up Out of Control the other day but they were all gone! Will keep trying – the race car premise sounds fun, and that is a great cover!
Brenda–as usual, you made me laugh. That’s a tough lesson I’m learning as I’m aging, too. I just don’t recover from those late nights the way I used to
If you need help finding the book, shoot me an email. I might be able to help you out. That’s cool for me to hear that they’re gone, though. I hope the readers who bought them enjoy them.
Every time that I read a book I learn something new. The minor league baseball team just started their season so I’m getting to know all the new players.
When I eat out I make sure I always say thank you to the waiter or waitress. I always have a smile ready for anyone who looks like they could use one.
Nicole–I bet you get good service at restaurants, too, because you personalize the staff by using their names. Nice.
Cool! Another baseball fan. I’m finding I’m getting more interested in minor league teams, just because we don’t have a pro team here in Nebraska. The beginning of the new season is always an exciting, hopeful time, I think–who’ll do well? who’s back in action? who’s the new kid to watch? And they look good in their uniforms