I’m practically a star this month. If you open your March issue of Redbook magazine to page 84, you’ll find a quote from yours truly as a contribution to the article “Find Your Sexist Self” by Colleen Oakley. It’s not every day I’m quoted in national publications, so I had to crow. My teenage son wasn’t terribly impressed; instead he seemed to fight the impulse to scream in horror when he saw “21 ways to unleash your inner vixen.” You’d think he would be immune to this sort of thing by now, having grown up with sexy manuscripts forever sitting on the printer and suggestive book covers winking back at him from the shelves in my office.
No surprise that he declined to read my quote.
But I digress. The real reason I mention the article is that it’s pertinent reading for the Blaze fan. I mean, chances are good if we’re reading or writing Blaze that we like the idea of “red-hot” for a sensuality level. You’re probably as invested as I am in maintaining a certain amount of your mojo.
The article points out various ways to do that, including my tip about tapping into romantic or sexy tunes from your dating days to create a personalized playlist. I think music has a great ability to transport you to another time and place, instantly reminding you of other steamy moments.
I’d also suggest that reading a Blaze is a good way to remind you of the temptress within. Reading romance, for me, is always mood elevating. Plus, sexy romance in particular reminds me that passion is a gift. Romance heroes and heroines fight so hard for that happy ending that I feel like it’s only right to celebrate my own HEA early and often.
What about you? How do you get your sexy back? (K) I’m officially asking for your quote on the subject. Do you have a go-to dress in the back of your closet that makes you feel on top of your sexy A-game? A date night destination that puts you in a flirtatious frame of mind? Please share on the boards for a chance to win an advance copy of my April Blaze Historical,
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Hi Joanne! Great topic and I cant wait ot read the article in Redbook. As for how I get my sexy back, lately its not easy with three kids ages 9, 5 and 3. But normally when I do it starts with a long shower and me actually shaving, lol! Then a cute dress or pants and a sexy top, depending on the weather. Doing my hair and makeup which doesnt get done very often. And finishing it off with a sexy pair of heels. Since we dont go out very often I really do enjoy doing all this stuff for the times when we do. And that look on my husbands face when he sees me all dressed up is always worth it! Have a great day!! (*)
(K) How I get my sexy back? Like Alina, I start with a nice leisurely shower but instead of getting dressed up, I put on my favorite pair of satin PJs but before I do that, I use my scented powder and Soft Musk perfume. After 19 years with Chris he always identifies that scent with me. It makes me feel sexy and desirable to do those little things. It has kept the sexy in our marriage even after all these years.
BTW, congrats on the quoite, I can’t wait to read the article.
Patsy, I think that’s so neat you’ve kept the same fragrance! I have a girlfriend who is really fragrance loyal and I can’t smell White Linen without thinking of her.
I have worn the same scent since I was in High School because I just love the smell. My hubby says he can not smell Soft Musk without thinking of me.
Hi Joanne!
I love Historical Blazes, wish there were more! A long leisurely bubble bath where I can ‘de-fur’ along with some sexy PJ’s and/or underthings helps keep the sexy alive big time.
I have been married 28 years (since I was 20!) And this still works!
Congrats on the quote! (K)
Karyn, I hear Pat Potter has a Blaze Historical due out in September
. Congrats to you on being married 28 years! Awesome.
Hey Joanne, are you talking Patricia Potter? I haven’t seen anything by her in a while. I love her historicals.
Peace and love,
Paula R.
Yes! Patricia Potter. I’m sure it’s a western. And yes… fabulous historicals!
You’re going to hate my answer. It’s all in my eyes for me (at least to start). My eyes reveal SO MUCH and my husband has read them like a book for almost 29 years now!
Will watch for the Redbook article. Thanks for the heads up (no pun intended, LOL)!
To get my sexy back, I go to the salon and have my hair styled and then I home and put on my sexiest lingerie under one of my favorite outfits and go out on a date with my husband.
Ahhh music, what a great way to feel sexy… sultry tunes in the background, fav scent in the air…
Congrats on the quote!!!
Thank you, Colleen! (*)
Working out–feeling like I’ve done something good for myself and feeling strong really help me feel and enjoy some confidence, and that’s a huge component of feeling sexy!
Hey Joanne, don’t count me in for the contest okay. I was just dropping by to show some love.
Kudos to you for making it into Redbook!
Peace and love,
Paula R.
(L) Thank you, Paula! I appreciate you stopping by!
You are welcome Joanne! I hope that all is well.
Peace and love,
Paula R.
Great topic! Like most modern working women who own a home, I have my beauty routine down to an efficient few moments a day. To really feel and look my sexiest, I pamper myself from head to toe! A long hot bath, my favorite scent here, there and everywhere, making sure my skin is soft and smooth and my hair is silky and touchable. My makeup is carefully applied: smokey eyes and kissable lips! Whatever I wear will look and feel slinky and sensual. Ready to take on the world…or just one very attractive male!
A little pampering makes me feel better and sexier. Every so often I get a mani/pedi. Buying nice lingerie as does the job.
I like sexie lingerie, I think it makes everyone feel sexy. I also like candles and music. Some chocolate doesn’t hurt either.
Linda, is there anything chocolate won’t solve?
Well, I lost my sexy yrs ago. I don’t know where I lost it and really have not looked for it. I figured at 67 I don’t have to have sexy as long as I look presentable. LOL
Brenda, you probably have so much mojo, you don’t *need* to go looking for it! Sometimes we’re at our best when we simply ourselves to just be. (Y)
To feel really sexy, I have to start with a bubble bath and a glass of wine. I also light candles for bath time. It totally relaxes me and makes me feel warm all over.
A cute outfit and hair that behaves go a long way to making me feel on top of my game.
(F) Winner!!! Congratulations to Virginia C, winner of the thread prize. Virginia, all you need to do is zip me an email at joanne@joannerock.com with a mailing address so I can ship a signed copy of The Captive to you.
Thanks so much for visiting with me!!
WoW! Thank you! Since my days as a vixen are fewer and farther between, I truly appreciate great books to read! (Y)
Okay, my answer may sound corny….. but honestly, since life is so rushed these days as a mom with four kids, I find I feel the most romantic/vixenish when my hubby and I take the time for thinngs like holding hands or staring at each other across the room. A simple wink from him when no one is looking…. just delicious!
Great blog, Joanne!! And mega-congrats on the quote in Redbook!!!!
Congrats Virginia! (F)
Congrats, Virginia! And Joanne–I’ve got that article! Congrats!!