I discovered this fabulous blog about personality traits that the blogger admired and suggested people needed to acquire and it me to thinking about the attributes our heroes and heroines should possess.
1. Selflessness: Our heroes, embody this attribute. Whether protecting the innocent, guarding a heroine’s body, or listening with interest, we see the men and women in our books exhibit a selflessness that show a giving and generous nature.
2. Tolerance: In our heroes and heroines, this attribute tells the reader that these are the kind of people who understand that there are individual differences in all people. They understand that people are who they are and accept them for their quirks and idiosyncrasies at face value. Although, I would have probably labeled this one acceptance because I feel that it’s more appropriate, it still fits.
3. Genuineness: Showing our characters to be true to themselves and dismissive of the artificial makes for strong heroes and heroines. The author states “Having the ability to be real, authentic and honest is unique in a world where we put so much emphasis on the superficial. Feeling comfortable in one’s skin and being true to one’s self is one of the most beautiful traits one can possess. To have a REAL relationship with someone requires honesty…it requires hearing and giving input or feedback that may not always be popular…it means having the strength to tell it like it is and to not be afraid to face the consequences for doing so…it means loving people for who they really are…deep down…and not for what they appear to be.”
4. Sensitivity: Our characters have a wealth of this attribute. They cue into the needs of people around them whether they be friends, co-workers, or family members. Even our cop heroes are sensitive to the victims and to the people who have lost loved ones. It’s a requisite attribute that serves our characters well and endear them to our readers.
5. Integrity: An attribute that seems to be sorely lacking these days. The author says, “Call me cynical, but I think this characteristic is especially difficult to find. In a time when people will do things that are underhanded to make an extra buck (Bernie Madoff…can you hear me?), expose their personal lives to the public so they can be famous (balloon boy’s dad and any other reality TV mongers) and do what feels good in the moment without necessarily thinking of the consequences (Tiger Woods), integrity is a characteristic that is especially unique today. When a character sets a goal or makes a promise, you can be sure that they will follow through on it.
6. Humility: This is an attribute that loses it’s meaning if a person thinks they are humble. Many of our characters have confidence, for sure, but there is something about each one that shows that they are humble and if an author doesn’t, you can be sure that they will come to it over the course of the novel. Sometimes characters have something that they need to learn and we cheer them on as we read, looking for that transformation, that very human, “aha” moment when they discover what it is they’ve been searching for or striving for. That’s what makes them everyday heroes.
I know people like this and I have to say that they are some of the best people I have ever met. I want to interact with them every day. How about you? What are the attributes that you admire in others, or yourself. Which ones do you admire in your heroes and heroines that you’ve read about?
All the best,
Karen




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