Due to the fact I have offspring that are much more athletically talented than I am (a low bar, to be sure), I have been to several junior high cross-country running meets this fall. Watching cross-country is not what you’d call a fantastic spectator sport because the kids all take off running at the starting line, run across the field, and usually disappear into the woods. If you are fast enough, you can sprint diagonally across the field behind them to catch them at a corner, but after that they are out of sight.
Then you chew the fat with the other parents, watch your wristwatch and eventually the first few speed demons erupt from the woods and tear down the chute to the finish line while everyone cheers mightily for their excellence as the kids wipe off dead bugs and mud from their skin. After one race, mine looked like the grill of our car after a long road trip.
The other kids dribble in and get cheered, but there are always a few toward the end who struggle. One race had them running two laps past the spectators, and the winners passed the last girl, going twice as fast.
I am not the sentimental type when it comes to sports. My heart doesn’t beat faster when I hear “Bear Down, Chicago Bears” and I have never painted my face Illini blue-and-orange. And normally I hate the “you’re all winners just for showing up” attitude because I was an extraordinarily competitive girl when I played sports as a kid and thought it stunk if you didn’t win. (actually I still do).
But that one girl last Saturday made me choke up and glad I had sunglasses to hide my watery eyes. She absolutely had to know she was dead last, and after her first lap, I expected her to drop out and I wouldn’t see her again.
But here she came, putting one foot in front of the other. It had taken so long that the spectators had drifted onto the course (one goofball even had his bike in her way) and the coaches had to roust everyone off. And that girl got a huge cheer as she staggered up the hill to the finish.
I thought of Winston Churchill’s quote, “Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never–in nothing, great or small, large or petty–never give in.” And I promised myself that even if I found myself plodding along dead last in whatever I had to do, that I would be as brave as that girl and just keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Maybe we all can be winners just for keeping going. My September Blaze Her Last Line of Defense deals heavily with bravery and endurance under difficult conditions. Post what you think and you’ll be entered to win a copy of my Green Beret-themed romance.